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Hunters of the Unicorn

By randomblink on July 21, 2021

I guess I just see so many aspects of Unicorn Hunting as that sliding scale. It’s not a black and white scenario. It’s not always bad, it’s not always good, it’s up to those involved to make it what they will.

The Way of the Pips

By randomblink on July 14, 2021

As someone that struggles with some serious depression I've had to find my own purpose, my own focus, and dice are the center and core of this path.

Sexiquette : Part 3 - Swinger Club

By randomblink on July 14, 2021

A swinger club can be a lot of fun, outside of the sex and trust me, the sex I've seen can be outrageous and amazing. The people there are literally primed for a good time in ways that muggles just aren’t. So come to have a good time, don't expect to get lucky, and you should have fun.

Sexiquette : Part 2 - The Dungeon

By randomblink on July 7, 2021

Having been to more house parties, dungeons and swinger clubs than I would care to recount, I can tell you that there is an expectation by those attending as to how people should act. If you want to be welcome to a Dungeon? You really should have a good idea of what that way is. Let me share.

The Alpha Male Isn't

By randomblink on June 30, 2021

In 1947 Rudolf Schenkel built the foundation that toxic masculinity flourished upon, the concept of the Alpha Male. Oddly enough it was based on damage, scared, anxious wolves in captivity. Free wolves don't act the way he outlined and examined. We've learned since then, can we unlearn now?

Sexiquette : Part 1 - All Clubs

By randomblink on June 23, 2021

Once you've decided to visit the local sex club, you've made the first of many good choices. Let's make sure we keep this decision making on the positive side and listen to Reverend Blink to get some good ideas for moving ahead with these plans. You've got this. We've got this. Let's do this.

The Thin Green Line

By randomblink on June 21, 2021

If you haven’t worked in Technology Security then you aren’t aware of how insane a breach can be. Whether it’s an ignorant user, bad tech, failed software, poor security, or just bad management, it’s raw nerves and painful fear as people fight to stop the danger and keep their jobs simultaneously. Neither tends to work in some cases.

Unilateral Partnership

By randomblink on June 16, 2021

Relationships require back and forth, equal footing for all partners involved. Equity means that everyone has a fair and impartial involvement. Nobody is gaining an advantage and nobody is at a disadvantage. This requires communication, trust, and love. Let's work on it.

The D/s Contract : Dom's Promises

By randomblink on June 9, 2021

Communication is a key factor in all relationships. With monogamy and non-monogamy, but ESPECIALLY with BDSM. The Power-Exchange that goes into this flavor of lifestyle is a fairly powerful type of trust. A contract builds that trust, defines the expectations for it and guides it.

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