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NSFW Photoshoots

By randomblink on February 22, 2022

I do boudoir and adult photoshoots. And I love doing them. I’ve done more than I can remember with more models and clients than I can count. I say adult photoshoots because I’ve done couple shoots where the couple wanted their intimate time together photographed for their personal enjoyment. It’s fun, it’s sexy and it’s […]

How NOT to communicate

By randomblink on February 3, 2022

...and how not to. Have you ever watched a dumpster fire unravel in front of you, and since the communicators were not involving you, there wasn’t really a place for your voice to interject sanity? I was a part of that one Saturday. At the club there are multiple groups that mingle, you have poly […]

Stability is King

By randomblink on January 13, 2022

Random thoughts about the toughest two years of my life so far and realizations that it has brought me. I survived them but I'm still processing them and might be for awhile and that's ok.

When is a son, not a son

By randomblink on September 4, 2021

Living through a loss like I did changed who I am, I was, and who I would become. I often wonder how different I would be if I hadn't been betrayed like I was. But we will never know.

Hunters of the Unicorn

By randomblink on July 21, 2021

I guess I just see so many aspects of Unicorn Hunting as that sliding scale. It’s not a black and white scenario. It’s not always bad, it’s not always good, it’s up to those involved to make it what they will.

The Way of the Pips

By randomblink on July 14, 2021

As someone that struggles with some serious depression I've had to find my own purpose, my own focus, and dice are the center and core of this path.

Sexiquette : Part 3 - Swinger Club

By randomblink on July 14, 2021

A swinger club can be a lot of fun, outside of the sex and trust me, the sex I've seen can be outrageous and amazing. The people there are literally primed for a good time in ways that muggles just aren’t. So come to have a good time, don't expect to get lucky, and you should have fun.

Sexiquette : Part 2 - The Dungeon

By randomblink on July 7, 2021

Having been to more house parties, dungeons and swinger clubs than I would care to recount, I can tell you that there is an expectation by those attending as to how people should act. If you want to be welcome to a Dungeon? You really should have a good idea of what that way is. Let me share.

The Alpha Male Isn't

By randomblink on June 30, 2021

In 1947 Rudolf Schenkel built the foundation that toxic masculinity flourished upon, the concept of the Alpha Male. Oddly enough it was based on damage, scared, anxious wolves in captivity. Free wolves don't act the way he outlined and examined. We've learned since then, can we unlearn now?

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